So I have been talking a ton about Happy Chaos but what to you do when you are really in the throes of it? As luck would have it the book came out at the same time as Poet's birthday. I knew that I couldn't be in N.Y.C. without my baby girl for her 6th birthday. So after much soul searching we decided we should bring the whole family, we found some great deals and were on or way. My girls, my big brother, my nieces, my sister in law, the whole gang. Daddy even surprised her on her birthday morning. In the middle of the night before her b-day we decorated the hotel room with streamers and even a Pinata. Lucky for me, they had a Target in Harlem. It was literally one of the most special birthdays ever. She said this one topped all of them. So next time life throws you a curve ball or something unexpected, take a look inside and see if maybe you can turn into something special and perhaps full of Happy Chaos.